12 questions · about 3 minutes

Where do
you start?

No jargon, no label at the end. Twelve plain questions, and a short reading list built from whatever caught your interest.

  1. 1. Being told exactly what to do sounds like a relief rather than a chore.

  2. 2. I would rather be the one setting the rules.

  3. 3. The idea of not being able to move appeals to me.

  4. 4. I am curious about pain that is wanted rather than accidental.

  5. 5. Being told I did well matters more to me than most things.

  6. 6. I like the idea of doing something for someone purely because they asked.

  7. 7. The idea of being talked to in a way that would be rude anywhere else interests me.

  8. 8. I would like to stop being myself for an hour.

  9. 9. What happens afterwards matters to me as much as what happens during.

  10. 10. I want to understand this properly before I try any of it.

  11. 11. Strong sensation of any kind gets my attention: heat, cold, pressure.

  12. 12. The idea of being someone's pet, or having one, is not as strange to me as it should be.

Nothing is saved and nothing is sent anywhere. This gives you a reading list, not a label. Twelve questions cannot tell you who you are and nothing here is trying to. Take your time, read before you try anything, and remember that being curious about something is not a commitment to doing it.